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| I say that this would solve nothing |
Porn and etc. ruining my relationship...please help! Almost in tears.? I'm 19 and he's 20.We've been engaged for almost a yr and together for almost 3... You would think that we would be having tons of sex but for the past month or 2, he's been wrapped up in watching porn or things like it and we have been having less and less sex.
The non pornographic shows with titles that you would think were dirty like "Bleach Blonde Beach Babes" and he will just randomly see something on tv for example a show that was on called "Wired for Sex" and turn to it with me right there. Even though half the time its not anything bad, I know what his intention was.
I guess you could say I'm insecure because I DO get jealous, but now its starting to interfere with our relationship. I dont know what to say or how to start talking to him about it without sounding stupid and immature!
Please help...I'm almost in tears. |
I think really, that you KNOW the answer to these questions, and you are just needing to justify the answers.
Any type of addiction is very hard and difficult to beat, and to compete with.
You will always lose.
It's way to easy and convenient for him to sign on, watch or view pictures and videos. If you were both in to it, I would say enjoy it together. It's okay for that...but if you are not in to it, as I suspect, and are very insecure as you've mentioned, this will always be an issue for your relationship. And, this is NOT a good way to start off, and have an eventual marriage or commitment.
I think you should take some time, step back and look at him objectively, and ask yourself:
Is this REALLY someone that I want or desire in my life?
Is this person REALLY someone that will be a good role model for our guyren?
You know the answers that are best for you.....
Find the strength, and be strong. |
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Blatz
Jack Acid
Lunachicks
Nasal Sex
Crimpshrine
Meat Puppets
Circle Jerks
Black Flag
Dead Milkmen
The Specials
L7
Rapid Lassie
The Plasmatics
Soup
Porn Flakes
Bikini kill
Mustard Plug
Alice cooper
vomit punx
filth
green day
operation ivy
the ramones
Skankin pickle
poison idea
bad brains
dirt
4 non blondes
jawbreaker
dead kennedys
Hole
eyeball
ISOCRACY
lookouts
joan jett
babes from toyland
runaways
velvet underground
Common Rider |
sex pistols
gorilla biscuits
the casualties
reel big fish
catch 22
pavement
sunny day real estate
fugazi
minor threat
bob marley
nirvana
the misfits
leftover crack
choking victim
against all authority
texas is the reason
rancid
no commerical value
the horrors
the clash
the adolescents
the descendants
smashing pumpkins
big d and the guys table
7 seconds
youth brigade
the vandals
sham 69
the germs
suicide machines
suicidal tendencies
social distortion
SOA
no cash
citizen fish
X
richard hell
iggy pop and the stooges
nauseau
lower class brats
rites of spring
the pixies
joy division
jesus and the mary chain
stone roses
discharge
icons of filth
pennywise
the damned
those are just some of my favs
ENJOY |
Porn and etc. ruining my relationship...please help! Almost in tears.? I'm 19 and he's 20.We've been engaged for almost a yr and together for almost 3... You would think that we would be having tons of sex but for the past month or 2, he's been wrapped up in watching porn or things like it and we have been having less and less sex.
The non pornographic shows with titles that you would think were dirty like "Bleach Blonde Beach Babes" and he will just randomly see something on tv for example a show that was on called "Wired for Sex" and turn to it with me right there. Even though half the time its not anything bad, I know what his intention was.
I guess you could say I'm insecure because I DO get jealous, but now its starting to interfere with our relationship. I dont know what to say or how to start talking to him about it without sounding stupid and immature!
Please help...I'm almost in tears. |
i'm sorry but i am going to be expressing some unpopular opinions here. it really does sound to me like porn IS ruining your relationship.
does he know that you're not pleased with this? if he does and persists on watching his porn, then i don't know whether he respects you as much as he should. porn over you? wait a minute, something doesn't seem right.
however, it is common to feel that porn gets in the way of your romantic relationship, because it is easy to get sucked into material of such nature - your boyfriend is human after all.
i think you should put your worries about sounding stupid and immature away, and just sit down and have a good, honest talk with him. just say what you feel, because he probably needs to know and listen to your feelings about how his actions are making you feel uneasy, and how you think they're affecting your relationship with him.
all the best. |